Good looking, healthy, happy...

I have many friends, but I need ONE who can be more than a friend. I am married, not planning to change my status. I would prefer to meet married man as well, who is missing something special in the marriage, feel lonely, and need a friend. I am educated; I can freely to discuss any topic... If you are educated , it is a big plus. I do not smoke or drink alcohol, so ... you might be light drinker... but not more... Also, some people say that look doesn't matter; for me it does...